Easter Plans

11 Apr

For the first 25 years of my life, I was a fairly good Catholic girl.  I may not have followed all the rules or believed everything the Church told me to, but I went to mass on Sundays and Holy Days, fasted when I was supposed to, and tried to participate in church activities.  Then I moved down here.

As I’ve mentioned before, I’ve basically become a non-practicing Catholic.  The last time I went to church was Christmas Eve (making me a a Chreaster – someone who attends church on Christmas and Easter – a word my boss, Jocelyn, taught me in law school).  And the time before that (excluds ing my cousin’s Latin mass wedding in November) was in July – before the campaign madness.

It makes me a little sad that this has happened to me.  I may have struggled with my religion, but I always had mass on Sundays to tie me to it.  Now I have nothing.  My hold to the church has always been tenuous so it wasn’t that hard to break.  I’ve had a hard time finding a church around here that I like and none of my friends are Catholic.  All the Catholic churchgoers in Florida are 80 years old.  All I want is a friendly, progressive church that isn’t going to preach to me about abortion and gay marriage every week.  I don’t think that’s too much to ask.  But I know I was spoiled living in Ann Arbor with all it’s liberalness.

Anyway, I’ve decided that tomorrow we will be going to church again.  I love the Easter mass.  It’s my favorite of the whole year.  And then we will be going to brunch at a restaurant on the water.  Ben’s family always does brunch for Easter, so I’m trying to do something familiar for our first somewhat major holiday on our own.  I know our parents wish we were home, but the cheap flights just didn’t work around the necessary dates.

And then we’ll see what happens next Sunday…

Detroit

6 Apr

Mitch Albom wrote a fantastic article about Detroit in light of the NCAA Final Four.  Enjoy.  :)

*Also, GO STATE (says the lifelong Wolverine).

freep.com

April 5, 2009

Pride not pity should be Detroit’s Finals legacy

BY MITCH ALBOM
FREE PRESS COLUMNIST

It will not save
us. No basketball game can do that. No matter who wins Monday night,
Tuesday morning the jobs still will be gone, the factories still silent
and empty, the houses still for sale or abandoned altogether. The
out-of-town media who see a national championship tonight at Ford Field
as some uplifting salve for downtrodden Detroit are a bit misdirected.

It’s not our mind-set we’re trying to change.

It’s yours.

Because
this bash Motown is hosting is not meant to be a pity party. We don’t
want sad headshakes on your way out of town. As Tom Izzo said today,
“There are a lot of cities out there that have problems; this is ours.”
And he’s right. This is our city, but it’s your America. What the rest
of the nation is suffering, we went through first. And if our leaders
aren’t wise, what we’re enduring now, you may endure next.

You
can’t cut off your manufacturing arm and expect to build. You can’t
outsource everything and expect to lead the world. And you can’t treat
blue-collar industry as a bunch of dumb rivetheads who need the
government to run them, while allowing the banking world to do as it
pleases with taxpayer money.

It wasn’t the auto industry that shot a hole in the side of America.

A light in the middle of the tunnel

We don’t want you to pity us;
we want you to notice us. Notice what is happening to the middle class
— which was invented in these parts — just as you notice what these
Michigan State kids in green jerseys are doing in this basketball
tournament. What they’re doing is what neighbors around here do when
one is laid off, what churches here do when someone can’t afford an
operation. As Kalin Lucas, raised in Sterling Heights, said today,
“It’s a storm in the city. We’re trying to bring sunlight to it.”

It’s called taking care of each other.

Through
all the injuries and setbacks, these Spartans, like their state, have
kept their heads down and their belief up. Now they have reached the
end of the rainbow, with kids like Raymar Morgan, who lost his way and
found it again, and Goran Suton, who returned from injuries to even
higher form, and Travis Walton, who has played all four years and was
dead set on not letting his career end one game shy of its maximum. Who
knows where he’ll go next, or how far? “But when it’s your last time
around, you want to make your biggest bang,” he said.

It was Walton and his senior teammates who decided what to yell in their team huddles. They chose the word “family.”

Not “win!” Not “kill!”

Family.

We’re all in this together

That, too, is what we want
you to notice. How folks here embrace our roots, rather than run from
them. We dream of greener pastures, but we want them in our backyards.
Sure, we’re a tad provincial, we make too much of a local fudge or an
auto show or a hockey team. But as Walton said in the celebration after
the upset Saturday over Connecticut, “We’re not a superstar team. We’re
a family. When you’re a family, it’s not the Kalin Lucas family or the
Travis Walton family. It’s the Spartans family.”

And
within our state, it’s the same thing. Which is why Detroit and East
Lansing are mingled so seamlessly in this Final Four. It’s the Michigan
family. It’s Izzo talking about growing up in tiny Iron Mountain, or
Marquise Gray from hardscrabble Flint, or Durrell Summers from Detroit,
who, when asked if he knew anyone who’d lost a job, said, “My mother,
my father, my cousin, I could go on…”

It
will not save us, this game, we know that. But for a brief moment, we
have the nation’s attention. Whatever stories get written, let them
talk about pounding away, doing things right, asking only a workman’s
due, but asking nothing less. Let them talk about family and
perseverance and what it can accomplish. Let them talk about traditions
worth celebrating and preserving.

That
way, no matter what the final score, they’ll be talking about the
basketball team AND the state it occupies. The Spartans want to make a
memory out of what you’re witnessing here. The rest of us don’t want
you to forget.

Contact MITCH ALBOM: 313-223-4581 or malbom@freepress.com.

Michigan
State beat writer Shannon Shelton will chat with fans about the
national championship game at 2 p.m. Monday at freep.com/sports. Get
your questions ready!

Books – March 2009

5 Apr

I still seem to be in the same reading funk that I’ve been in for 5 months.  Unless I really get into a book, I have a hard time sitting down and reading.  But I did manage to finish 3 books last month:

  • The History of Love by Nicole Krauss*
  • Lawyer Boy by Rick Lax
  • A Girl Named Zippy by Haven Kimmel

You get an old-school picture because Lawyer Boy is currently on loan to my paralegal’s son.

Lawyer Boy: A Case Study on Growing Up

A Girl Named Zippy: Growing Up Small in Mooreland Indiana (Today Show Book Club #3)

The History of Love: A Novel

New books include:

  • A Walk in the Woods by Bill Bryson
  • The Devil Wears Prada by Lauren Weisberger
  • The Code of the Woosters by P.G. Wodehouse
  • Bridget Jones’ Diary by Helen Fielding
  • Neverwhere by Neil Gaiman

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And books I’m still in the middle of:

  • Northanger Abbey by Jane Austen
  • Kavalier and Clay by Michael Chabon
  • A Spot of Bother by Mark Haddon

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*I finished History of Love a few weeks ago, but I still want to do a post on it, so look for that soon.

Lessons from Disney World

3 Apr

Ben and I took a somewhat spontaneous trip to Disney World this week.  We drove over Tuesday night, went to Magic Kingdom on Wednesday, Downtown Disney Wednesday evening, and Epcot on Thursday, then drove home that night.  Ben had never been to Disney World before so it was fun taking him.  I hadn’t been in 10 years, so I had fun experiencing it all over again.  Here are a few things I learned:

  1. I am not 16 anymore.  I cannot walk around for 12 hours straight.  At this point it’s easier to tell you which body parts aren’t sore.
  2. Disney World is still fun in the rain.
  3. Having Japan and Italy within walking distance would be amazing – Sushi for lunch, gelato for desert.  Everyday.
  4. The Magic Kindom isn’t very big.  It was much larger in my memory.
  5. You get wetter than you think you’re going to on Splash Mountain and you should probably not do it at 9am when it’s still a bit chilly.
  6. Apparently tube tops over other tanktops or t-shirts is the new style.  And black socks on guys.
  7. Always do the single rider line.  It could save you hours of your life.
  8. Stay at a hotel close to the park.  Otherwise, you are the first to be picked up by a shuttle and the last dropped off.
  9. If you don’t speak English, you apparently have a reason to avoid social norms, like not cutting in line.
  10. And finally…Disney World really is the happiest place on earth.  :)

I tried to upload some pictures but vox is not letting me.  Perhaps, I will try later.  I don’t think they were my best pictures anyway.  ;)

My Fabulous Weekend

30 Mar

This weekend one of my oldest friends, Jessica stayed with us.  She is visiting her grandparents 45 minutes north of here and was able to spend some time with us.  We were going to go to the beach, but the wind prevented that.  Since it wasn’t even nice enough to do anything outside, the three of us went to Target and came home with a Wii.  We then spent most of the Saturday playing with it.  And now we are all very sore today, but it was a lot of fun.

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At 8:30 (ish – we were  a little late), we turned our lights off for Earth Hour.  Last year, I spent Earth Hour eating Chinese food and drinking cocktails with Mary and Karen – my ballet friends.  This year, I spent it eating Thai food and drinking rum and cokes with Jessica and Ben.  And then playing Boggle by candlelight.  Both years it has been a lot of fun.

Today we went to Target to get some more Wii games (it is buy 2 get 1 free time if anyone is interested).  Then sat by the pool for awhile despite the fact that it was a bit too chilly/windy.  We took Jessica back and now it’s movie night time (being replaced by 24 marathon night this week).  The whole weekend was a lot of fun.

I tried to find an old picture of Jess and me.  Her first day of school was my 10th birthday.  Luckily, one kid was absent so I was able to give her a cupcake.  And we’ve been friends ever since.  But this was the oldest picture I can find.  It’s from high school – looks like a concert but I can’t remember where exactly it is.  I’m on the right, Jessica is in the middle, and our friend Kelly is on the left.

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Me and Kavalier and Clay

22 Mar

The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier & Clay

I am having the hardest time reading it.  I’ve put it down a second time for another book.  It’s not that I don’t like it.  In fact, I enjoy the parts that I read.  But I just never seem to get anywhere and then I get restless.  I guess I’ll finish it some day.

Instead, I’m reading The History of Love by Nicole Krauss.  I’m 15 pages in and loving it.  I think it was just what I was looking for to get me through the weekend.

The History of Love: A Novel

Lawyer Boy

21 Mar

Lawyer Boy: A Case Study on Growing Up

My letter to Rick Lax, author of Lawyer Boy:

I don’t normally write to authors when I finish a book, but I thought I
would take a minute to say that I really enjoyed yours.  My
mother-in-law gave it to me a few weeks ago thinking that I’d enjoy it
and (to the best of my understanding) my husband’s uncle knows your dad
and that’s how she heard about the book.  To add to my interest, we did
our undergrad at Michigan at the same time (which made me enjoy all the
Tally Hall references).  I stayed at Michigan for law school and just
finished in May.  I am now practicing employment law at a small firm in
Florida.

Before I went to law school, I was encouraged to read One L which I
think is the worst thing you can do to an aspiring lawyer.  From now
on, I will be encouraging people to read your book instead.  I think it
captures the feelings of the first year of law school without actually
scaring you to death like One L (although your Legal Practice professor
was a bit intimidating).  At some point you mention liking your first
year of law school and, to be honest, I enjoyed my whole law school
experience.  I’m glad that there are decent writers out there who can
capture that (personally, I’m saving my memoirs for childhood stories
of my crazy father).

Thank you for writing this book.  I will freely recommend it to others
- especially the people I know who are thinking about law school.

Michelle

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

17 Mar

For your enjoyment on one of my favorite holidays:

Because you may be as bored as I am and read this

17 Mar

Thanks to peculiar-treasure for a way to cure my boredom today.

FOR TODAY.-03/17/2009 (I had to Americanize the date :P )
Outside my window...It is cloudy and humid.
I am thinking…that I should probably be working instead of doing this.
I am thankful for...the stereo I have in my office – it gets me through mornings like this.
Im learning…about the Fair Labor Standards Act.  Fun, I know.
Lunch and dinner will be…Lunch will be ballgame food and dinner will be Special K cereal or waffles (today is day one of the Special K challenge for me).
I am wearing...Grey pants, my Irish t-shirt under a black sweater, and heels.
I am creating…a motion for summary judgment.
I am going…to the gym and dance tonight – my favorite night of the week!
I am reading...Kavalier and Clay
I am hoping…that the air conditioning gets fixed at the office today.
I am hearing…the aforementioned music – currently Joshua Radin.
One of my favorite things…baseball games in the middle of the work day.
A few plans for the rest of the week:…work, seeing Hannah!, gym, dance, Lost with Erin, young lawyer’s happy hour, and did I mention Hannah’s visiting.

The Amazing World of Show Choirs

15 Mar

My friend, Lisa, and I went to Orlando today to see my cousin, Alyssa, perform in a high school show choir competition at the Hard Rock Live.  I mostly went for the chance to see Alyssa – she lives in Massachusetts so I only see her when I make the trek up to Boston.  But I got so much more.

Show choirs are kind of the best thing ever.  I wish they had entered my life earlier.  My high school didn’t have one.  It’s singing, dancing, big hair, sparkly costumes, and over-enthusiastic teenagers.  I can’t really think of a better combination.  We went thinking we’d see Alyssa’s group and then leave and do something else in the area.  But we got sucked in and watched 6 groups performed and stayed for the finalist announcements.

Alyssa was amazing.  She has a fantastic voice.  And I’ve been lucky enough to see her twice in the last year (I saw her in 42nd Street in November on my road trip).  Her school was really good.  When they did the announcement for the finalists (6 of the 9 groups that performed), Lisa and I held our breath.  They announced the first 5 groups, and then, with all the drama and hesitation you would find in a movie where the main character is picked last, they announced her school!  They perform tonight at 9:30.  We couldn’t stay that late, but I’m so glad I went and saw what I did.  If you ever have the chance, go see a high school show choir competition.  I promise you will be entertained.